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March
March
March is the heart of Lent — the deep desert season of the liturgical year. The rotation continues from February: Solitude, Community, Service. The three temptations of Jesus in the wilderness (Matthew 4) structure much of the month’s solitude, while the parable of the Prodigal Son grounds the community reflections. Significant feasts align naturally with the rotation: Patrick (March 17 — Community), Joseph (March 19 — Solitude), Oscar Romero (March 24 — Service), and the Annunciation (March 25 — Solitude). Nouwen’s A Cry for Mercy, Walk with Jesus, and The Return of the Prodigal Son are the primary companions.
March begins with Solitude (Mar. 1), moves to Community (Mar. 2), then Service (Mar. 3), and continues in that pattern through March 31.
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March 1 — Solitude — The Interior Desert
“Lent’s forty days are not a spiritual performance but an invitation — to enter the interior wilderness honestly and to stay there long enough to discover what God has hidden in it.”
— Henri Nouwen, A Cry for Mercy
Matthew 4:1–2 (NKJV) — Then Jesus was led up by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted by the devil. And when He had fasted forty days and forty nights, afterward He was hungry.
March opens in the heart of Lent, and the interior desert is the primary terrain. Jesus was led by the Spirit — this is not abandonment but formation. The wilderness is where the false self is most clearly exposed and the true self, rooted in God’s love, is given the conditions it needs to emerge.
Nouwen wrote in A Cry for Mercy about the Lenten interior as a cry — not the polished prayer of the spiritually accomplished but the desperate reaching of the genuinely thirsty. The forty days are not about spiritual achievement; they are about honest poverty before a God who meets the genuinely poor in spirit.
Application: Enter your interior desert intentionally today — sit in the specific emptiness that Lent has revealed in you, without filling it with activity or spiritual performance. Let the emptiness be the prayer.
Personal Analysis: What is the specific form of the wilderness that this Lent is asking you to inhabit? What does the hunger feel like — and what does it reveal about what you have been trying to live by besides the word of God?
Key Phrase for the Day: “Led by the Spirit into the wilderness — the desert is God’s chosen ground for the deepest formation.”
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March 2 — Community — The Lenten Gathering
“The Lenten community is the community of honest people who have agreed, at least for forty days, to stop pretending that they have no need.”
— Henri Nouwen, A Cry for Mercy
Matthew 4:17 (NKJV) — From that time Jesus began to preach and to say, ‘Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.’
Repent — the Greek word means to change the mind, to turn around, to reorient the entire direction of one’s attention and allegiance. This is Lent’s communal invitation: a season of corporate turning, in which the community agrees together to face what it has been facing away from.
Nouwen wrote about the Lenten community as uniquely honest — because repentance requires the honesty that community makes possible. We cannot genuinely repent in isolation as readily as we can in the company of others who are also turning. The gathered Lenten community is the context in which the turning is practiced, supported, and made more real.
Application: In your Lenten community gathering this week, practice honest, specific repentance — not the general confession of being a sinner, but the particular, named turning from something you have identified as genuinely needing to change.
Personal Analysis: What does communal repentance look like in practice — not the private admission of guilt but the shared turning of a community together? How does it differ from private repentance, and what does it add?
Key Phrase for the Day: “Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand — the community turns together, and the turning is more real.”
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March 3 — Service — Serving from Emptiness
“The servant who has been emptied by the Lenten interior has more to give, not less — because what is given now comes from God rather than from the self’s own reserves.”
— Henri Nouwen, The Way of the Heart
Mark 8:34–35 (NKJV) — When He had called the people to Himself, with His disciples also, He said to them, ‘Whoever desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow Me. For whoever desires to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake and the gospel’s will save it.’
The paradox of Lenten service: the self that has been denied and emptied is the self most capable of genuine giving. The servant who has not practiced self-denial carries their service as their own achievement; the servant who has been emptied carries it as God’s gift flowing through an available vessel.
Nouwen wrote about self-denial not as self-punishment but as the deliberate clearing of interior space — the creation of the conditions in which God’s life can flow through without the obstruction of the self that insists on managing the flow. The cross taken up is the ending of the controlling self. What follows is the service that saves.
Application: In your service today, practice one act of deliberate self-denial — set aside your preferred method, your need for credit, or your expectation of gratitude. Let the service flow through you rather than from you.
Personal Analysis: What is the relationship between the Lenten practice of self-denial and the quality of your service to others? Have you experienced the paradox — that emptied servanthood is more genuinely giving than self-sufficient servanthood?
Key Phrase for the Day: “Whoever loses his life for My sake will save it — Lenten service flows from this interior emptying.”
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March 4 — Solitude — Resisting the First Temptation
“The temptation to make stones into bread — to use our gifts for our own provision — is the first and most persistent temptation of the servant’s interior life.”
— Henri Nouwen, In the Name of Jesus
Matthew 4:3–4 (NKJV) — Now when the tempter came to Him, he said, ‘If You are the Son of God, command that these stones become bread.’ But He answered and said, ‘It is written, Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God.’
The first temptation addresses Jesus’s identity: if you are the Son of God. The tempter does not deny the identity; he proposes to use it for self-provision. The servant with genuine gifts faces this temptation constantly: use your gifts to generate your own security, relevance, or comfort. The refusal — man shall not live by bread alone — is the servant’s most essential interior discipline.
Nouwen wrote that the temptation to relevance — to leverage our gifts for our own sense of significance — is the first and most seductive temptation of Christian leadership. It feels like service while being self-service. The interior desert is where this temptation is most clearly named and most directly refused.
Application: In your solitude today, name the specific ‘stones’ the tempter has suggested you turn into bread — the gifts or capacities you are being tempted to leverage for your own security or relevance rather than for genuine service.
Personal Analysis: How does the temptation to relevance manifest in your specific life and service context? What does it feel like when you are using your gifts for self-provision versus for the genuine service of others?
Key Phrase for the Day: “Man shall not live by bread alone — the first refusal of the desert is the foundation of genuine service.”
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March 5 — Community — Community as Resistance
“The community that holds together through the desert season is itself a form of resistance — against the individualizing temptation that says the spiritual life is essentially a solo enterprise.”
— Henri Nouwen, Reaching Out
Hebrews 3:12–13 (NKJV) — Beware, brethren, lest there be in any of you an evil heart of unbelief in departing from the living God; but exhort one another daily, while it is called ‘Today,’ lest any of you be hardened through the deceitfulness of sin.
The writer of Hebrews warns against the hardening that comes through isolation — the gradual calcification of the heart that happens when there is no community voice to speak the daily exhortation. Exhort one another daily: this is not the community’s optional ministry but its survival mechanism.
Nouwen wrote about the community as the primary site of protection against the subtle deceptions of the spiritual life. The deceits of sin are most effectively identified in the company of others who can see what the individual cannot. Lenten community is the community of daily mutual exhortation — gentle, honest, regular, and indispensable.
Application: Establish or deepen one daily or regular connection with a fellow community member during this Lenten season — not for accountability in the legalistic sense but for the mutual exhortation that Hebrews describes as daily and essential.
Personal Analysis: Have you experienced the hardening that comes from spiritual isolation — the gradual drift that happens without the daily voice of the community? What brought you back, and what does that experience suggest about the necessity of regular community contact?
Key Phrase for the Day: “Exhort one another daily — lest any of you be hardened through the deceitfulness of sin.”
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March 6 — Service — Fasting as Service
“The fast that releases resources for others is not a spiritual discipline for the individual alone — it is a redistribution of goods in the direction of need.”
— Henri Nouwen, Here and Now
Isaiah 58:6–7 (NKJV) — Is this not the fast that I have chosen: to loose the bonds of wickedness, to undo the heavy burdens, to let the oppressed go free, and that you break every yoke? Is it not to share your bread with the hungry, and that you bring to your house the poor who are cast out; when you see the naked, that you cover him, and not hide yourself from your own flesh?
Isaiah’s Lenten correction is devastating: the fast God chooses is not the private spiritual discipline of the comfortable but the active, material service of the vulnerable. The fast that releases time and resources from the self and directs them toward the hungry, the homeless, the oppressed — this is the fast that God acknowledges.
Nouwen wrote about Lenten fasting as always having this outward dimension — the resources released by fasting belong not to the self but to those who need them. The Lent that is only interior has missed the prophet’s plain instruction.
Application: Connect your Lenten fasting discipline directly to a concrete act of service for those in need: the money saved from fasting from food given to a food bank, the time freed from fasting from screens directed toward a neighbor in need.
Personal Analysis: How does Isaiah’s definition of fasting — loosing bonds, sharing bread, housing the poor — change your understanding of what Lenten fasting is for? Is your current Lenten practice pointed outward as well as inward?
Key Phrase for the Day: “The fast I have chosen: loose the bonds, share your bread — Lent is always outward as well as inward.”
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March 7 — Solitude — Courage in the Interior
“The interior courage required by Lent is not the courage of the dramatic gesture but the courage of continued faithfulness in the long, dark, apparently fruitless middle.”
— Henri Nouwen, Here and Now
Revelation 2:10 (NKJV) — Do not fear any of those things which you are about to suffer. Indeed, the devil is about to throw some of you into prison, that you may be tested, and you will have tribulation ten days. Be faithful until death, and I will give you the crown of life.
Perpetua and Felicity, martyred in Carthage in 203 AD, left behind one of the earliest first-person accounts of Christian suffering — Perpetua’s prison diary, written in the days before her execution. What is most striking is not her courage but her ordinariness: she is a nursing mother, worried about her child, frightened and then strangely at peace.
Nouwen wrote about interior courage as the fruit of sustained solitude — the stability of a soul that has found its ground in God and can therefore face what threatens without being defined by it. Be faithful until death. The interior life formed in the daily practice of Lenten solitude is what makes this possible.
Application: In your solitude today, bring the specific fear or dread that threatens your current faithfulness — name it directly before God — and receive the promise: ‘Be faithful, and I will give you the crown of life.’
Personal Analysis: What specific form of faithfulness is being asked of you in the difficult middle of your current season? What has your practice of solitude produced in you that makes that faithfulness more possible than it would otherwise be?
Key Phrase for the Day: “Be faithful until death — the interior courage that makes this possible is formed in solitude.”
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March 8 — Community — Women in Community
“The women who accompanied Jesus throughout His ministry — funding it, following it, witnessing it — remind us that community is always built by those whose contributions are not always the most visible.”
— Henri Nouwen, Here and Now
Luke 8:1–3 (NKJV) — Now it came to pass, afterward, that He went through every city and village, preaching and bringing the glad tidings of the kingdom of God. And the twelve were with Him, and certain women who had been healed of evil spirits and infirmities — Mary called Magdalene, out of whom had come seven demons, and Joanna the wife of Chuza, Herod’s steward, and Susanna, and many others who provided for Him from their substance.
The women named in Luke 8 provided for Jesus and the twelve from their own substance — they funded the ministry. Their names are listed with the same specificity as the twelve disciples, and their role is described without sentimentality: they provided. This is the service of the community’s hidden backbone.
Nouwen wrote about the community’s dependence on those whose contributions are structurally invisible — the givers, the preparers, the sustainers — and the spiritual obligation to honor what the world overlooks. The community that genuinely sees Mary Magdalene, Joanna, and Susanna is the community that has learned to see.
Application: Identify one person in your faith community whose contribution — financial, organizational, or practical — sustains the community’s ministry but receives little acknowledgment. Find a specific way to honor and name what they do this week.
Personal Analysis: Who are the ‘women of Luke 8’ in your community — the people who provide from their substance and make the ministry possible? How well does your community see and honor these contributors?
Key Phrase for the Day: “Many others who provided for Him from their substance — community is built by those whose giving is often invisible.”
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March 9 — Service — Resisting the Second Temptation
“The temptation to make God spectacular — to use spiritual power for impressive display — is the seduction that has destroyed more ministries than persecution ever could.”
— Henri Nouwen, In the Name of Jesus
Matthew 4:5–7 (NKJV) — Then the devil took Him up into the holy city, set Him on the pinnacle of the temple, and said to Him, ‘If You are the Son of God, throw Yourself down. For it is written: He shall give His angels charge over you, and, in their hands they shall bear you up.’ Jesus said to him, ‘It is written again, You shall not tempt the Lord your God.’
The second temptation leverages Scripture itself: throw yourself down, the angels will catch you. The spiritual servant who has mastered the first temptation — who no longer uses gifts for self-provision — faces the second: use the gifts for spectacular self-display. The crowd at the temple pinnacle would have been amazed. Ministry that needs an amazed crowd has not yet survived the second temptation.
Nouwen wrote in In the Name of Jesus about the temptation to spectacle as the most seductive because it feels most like faith: surely God will catch me if I leap. The refusal is quieter and less impressive: you shall not test the Lord your God.
Application: Examine one dimension of your service or ministry for the second temptation: Is it designed to impress? Does it need an audience to be meaningful? What would the same service look like if the crowd were removed?
Personal Analysis: Where in your service life is the temptation to spectacle most active — the pull toward the impressive gesture, the dramatic statement, the visible miracle? What is the refusal that the second temptation requires?
Key Phrase for the Day: “You shall not test the Lord your God — the refusal of spectacle is the servant’s second discipline.”
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March 10 — Solitude — Resisting the Third Temptation
“The temptation to power — to accomplish the kingdom’s goals by the world’s methods — is the most dangerous because it appears most pragmatic and least sinful.”
— Henri Nouwen, In the Name of Jesus
Matthew 4:8–11 (NKJV) — Again, the devil took Him up on an exceedingly high mountain, and showed Him all the kingdoms of the world and their glory. And he said to Him, ‘All these things I will give You if You will fall down and worship me.’ Then Jesus said to him, ‘Away with you, Satan! For it is written, You shall worship the Lord your God, and Him only you shall serve.’ Then the devil left Him, and behold, angels came and ministered to Him.
The third temptation offers the most reasonable proposal: here is the fastest path to the kingdom’s goals. Why suffer the cross when you could rule the kingdoms? The refusal — You shall worship the Lord your God alone — is also the most complete. The method cannot be separated from the message.
Nouwen wrote that the temptation to power is the most persistent in ministry: the belief that sufficient authority, resources, or influence will finally accomplish what love, truth, and the cross have not. The servant who refuses this temptation worships only God, serves only God’s methods, and trusts only God’s timeline.
Application: In your solitude today, examine whether there is a third-temptation shortcut in your current service life — a method or approach that would produce faster results at the cost of genuine fidelity. Name it and refuse it.
Personal Analysis: How does the third temptation manifest in the specific ministry contexts you inhabit? What makes the power option so attractive, and what does Jesus’s refusal of it reveal about the kingdom’s method?
Key Phrase for the Day: “You shall worship the Lord your God only — the third refusal clears the ground for genuine service.”
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March 11 — Community — History as Community Story
“The community that knows its own story — the full story, including the shameful chapters — is the community most protected against repeating its worst mistakes.”
— Henri Nouwen, Here and Now
Acts 17:26–27 (NKJV) — And He has made from one blood every nation of men to dwell on all the face of the earth, and has determined their preappointed times and the boundaries of their dwellings, so that they should seek the Lord, in the hope that they might grope for Him and find Him, though He is not far from each one of us.
Paul preaches to Athens that God has determined the appointed times and boundaries of every nation’s dwelling — that the whole sweep of human history is within God’s providential care. The community of faith carries this theological conviction about its own history: its story, however tangled, is held within the purposes of God.
Nouwen wrote about the community’s need to carry its own history honestly — not selectively, not heroically, but fully. The community that knows where it has been faithless as well as faithful is the community most likely to navigate its present with wisdom.
Application: In conversation with a long-standing member of your faith community, ask them to tell one story of the community’s history that is not the triumphant kind — a chapter of failure, confusion, or loss. Listen for what God was doing within it.
Personal Analysis: What chapters of your faith community’s history are most difficult to carry honestly? What would it mean for your community to tell its full story — including the difficult chapters — as part of its identity rather than as something to be minimized?
Key Phrase for the Day: “He has determined their appointed times — our community story, including its failures, is held in His purposes.”
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March 12 — Service — The Servant from the Mountain
“The servant who descends from the mountain carries what was received there — not as a permanent possession but as a gift to be given, and in the giving, received again.”
— Henri Nouwen, Here and Now
Matthew 17:1–5 (NKJV) — Now after six days Jesus took Peter, James, and John his brother, led them up on a high mountain by themselves; and He was transfigured before them. His face shone like the sun, and His clothes became as white as the light. And behold, Moses and Elijah appeared to them, talking with Him. Then Peter answered and said to Jesus, ‘Lord, it is good for us to be here.’ While he was still speaking, a bright cloud overshadowed them; and suddenly a voice came from the cloud, saying, ‘This is My beloved Son, in whom I am well pleased. Hear Him!’
Peter wants to stay on the mountain — to build three tabernacles and remain in the light. The service of the transfigured community is not to stay in the light but to descend with it. The mountaintop experience is the preparation for the valley service; the light received on the mountain is given to those in the valley.
Nouwen wrote about the transfiguration as the revelation of what the daily, ordinary service of Jesus actually is: the beloved Son, in whom the Father is well pleased, descending repeatedly into the valley to serve those who cannot climb to the mountain. The beloved identity descends. It is always descending.
Application: What mountaintop experience of God’s presence — a retreat, a significant prayer experience, a moment of clarity — has most clearly equipped you for valley service? How deliberately have you allowed the mountain’s gift to shape your descent?
Personal Analysis: Where are you most tempted to stay on the mountain — to maintain a spiritual experience rather than allowing it to drive you back down into the service of those in the valley?
Key Phrase for the Day: “This is My beloved Son — hear Him, and then descend with what you have heard.”
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March 13 — Community — Descending from the Mountain
“The community that descends from the mountaintop together is more capable of serving the valley than the individual who descends alone — because community prevents the privatization of what was given for others.”
— Henri Nouwen, Here and Now
Matthew 17:9 (NKJV) — Now as they came down from the mountain, Jesus commanded them, saying, ‘Tell the vision to no one until the Son of Man is risen from the dead.’
Jesus descends from the transfiguration with His disciples — He does not stay. And the vision that was given on the mountain is held in community until the proper time for its release. The communal discernment of when and how to share what has been received in the heights is one of the community’s most important practices.
Nouwen wrote about the community of the descent — those who have been on the mountain together and now return to the valley together — as carrying a particular form of solidarity. They have seen the same thing, and they carry it together. The community formed by shared vision is the community most likely to survive the valley’s demands without losing what the mountain gave.
Application: With the small group or community with whom you most share your interior life, discuss what you have received together in this season — what vision, what clarity, what gift from the mountain — that you are now carrying into your service together.
Personal Analysis: How does the community of shared vision — people who have seen the same thing — differ from the community of shared activity? What has your community seen together that most shapes what you do together?
Key Phrase for the Day: “Tell the vision to no one yet — the community of the descent carries the mountain’s gift together.”
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March 14 — Service — Transformed into His Likeness
“The service that flows from the contemplative life is always the overflow of what has been seen — the servant gives what the beholder has received.”
— Henri Nouwen, The Way of the Heart
2 Corinthians 3:18 (NKJV) — But we all, with unveiled face, beholding as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory, just as by the Spirit of the Lord.
The beholding produces the transformation; the transformation produces the service. Paul’s progression is exact: unveiled beholding of the Lord’s glory — transformation into His image — the outflow of that image into every dimension of life. The servant who has genuinely been in the presence of Christ carries the presence; the service becomes recognizably His.
Nouwen wrote that the contemplative life is not an alternative to service but its deepest preparation. The servant who serves without contemplation eventually runs dry; the servant formed in beholding carries an inexhaustible supply. The glory to glory is the story of a life of accumulated contemplation, each act of beholding producing a little more of the image.
Application: In your service today, bring the intention of the transformed servant: to offer not only what you can do but what you have seen. Let the service carry the quality of your most recent genuine encounter with the glory of the Lord.
Personal Analysis: How clearly can you trace the connection between your contemplative life and the quality of your service? When the beholding has been richest, what difference does it make in the service that follows?
Key Phrase for the Day: “Beholding the glory of the Lord, we are transformed from glory to glory — and the transformed servant serves.”
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March 15 — Solitude — Coming to Yourself
“The moment of coming to oneself is the moment Lent has been working toward — the honest recognition of where you are and what you need.”
— Henri Nouwen, The Return of the Prodigal Son
Luke 15:17–19 (NKJV) — But when he came to himself, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired servants have bread enough and to spare, and I perish with hunger! I will arise and go to my father, and will say to him, Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you, and am no longer worthy to be called your son. Make me like one of your hired servants.’
The prodigal’s return begins with the simplest and most profound act: he came to himself. He stopped performing, stopped constructing a false story about his situation, and saw clearly where he was. The ruin was genuine. The hunger was real. The father’s house had what he needed, and he was not there.
Nouwen wrote that the spiritual life requires this kind of radical honesty about one’s actual location — not where we imagine ourselves to be, not where we present ourselves to others as being, but where we actually are. The mid-Lenten solitude is the invitation to this coming to oneself: to stop, to see clearly, to name the distance from the father’s house.
Application: In your solitude today, practice the prodigal’s clarity: name honestly where you are in relation to the Father’s house — the distance, the hunger, the ruin that has resulted from your wandering. Then name the return: ‘I will arise and go.’
Personal Analysis: When have you most clearly experienced the prodigal’s ‘coming to yourself’ — the moment of genuine, unvarnished clarity about where you were spiritually? What produced it, and what did it make possible?
Key Phrase for the Day: “He came to himself — the most important Lenten movement is this clarity about where we actually are.”
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March 16 — Community — The Return to the Father
“The community gathered to celebrate the prodigal’s return is not the community of the morally successful — it is the community of those who have also, in their own ways, been welcomed home.”
— Henri Nouwen, The Return of the Prodigal Son
Luke 15:20–24 (NKJV) — And he arose and came to his father. But when he was still a great way off, his father saw him and had compassion, and ran and fell on his neck and kissed him. And the son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you, and am no longer worthy to be called your son.’ But the father said to his servants, ‘Bring out the best robe and put it on him, and put a ring on his hand and sandals on his feet. And bring the fatted calf here and kill it, and let us eat and celebrate; for this my son was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’ And they began to be merry.
The father runs. He does not wait for the speech to be completed; he falls on the returning neck before the prepared words have been fully spoken. The robe, the ring, the sandals, the feast — all before any reformation of character has been demonstrated. This is the community of the returning: welcomed before proven, feasted before examined.
Nouwen spent years meditating on Rembrandt’s depiction of this scene and concluded that the father’s embrace is the image of God that the community of faith is called to embody. The feast is for the returning, and the community is the feast.
Application: In your community this week, identify someone who is ‘a great way off’ — who has drifted, who has not been present, who has been away. Practice the father’s welcome: go toward them before they have completed their return.
Personal Analysis: What would it mean for your community to be consistently known as a community that runs toward the returning — that welcomes before examining, feasts before requiring proof? What would have to change in your community culture?
Key Phrase for the Day: “He ran and fell on his neck — the community of God runs toward the returning, not away.”
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March 17 — Community — Patrick: Service Across Cultures
“Patrick went back to Ireland as a slave who had become free, and in going back, he demonstrated that the gospel crosses every boundary that human history has created.”
— Henri Nouwen, Here and Now
Matthew 28:19–20 (NKJV) — Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all things that I have commanded you; and lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the age.
Patrick — captured as a teenager, enslaved in Ireland, escaped after six years, and then called back to the people who had enslaved him — is one of the most remarkable stories of cross-cultural service in the church’s history. The community he built among the Irish in the fifth century became one of the most significant in Christian history.
Nouwen wrote about Patrick as embodying the servant who has been emptied enough to return to what had previously only been experienced as harm. The service offered by someone who has genuinely forgiven is a different quality of service from the service of those who have never been tested by the one they serve.
Application: In your community’s cross-cultural partnerships — with LMC, Eastern Mennonite Mission, Mennonite Central Committee — identify one specific way you can more deeply engage with the ‘nations’ to whom the Great Commission is addressed. Let Patrick’s example shape your imagination.
Personal Analysis: What does Patrick’s return to Ireland — to those who had enslaved him — suggest about the boundaries that cross-cultural service requires us to cross? Is there a ‘Ireland’ in your life to which you are being called to return?
Key Phrase for the Day: “Go to all the nations — Patrick crossed the boundary of his own history to do so, and so must we.”
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March 18 — Service — Teaching the Mystery
“The most honest teachers are those who teach what they themselves are still learning — who stand at the edge of the mystery with their students rather than at the podium above it.”
— Henri Nouwen, The Wounded Healer
John 3:16–17 (NKJV) — For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.
Cyril of Jerusalem, whose feast falls near today, spent his ministry teaching new Christians the mysteries of the faith through the ancient practice of catechesis — leading people through the great doctrines of Scripture with patience, depth, and reverence for what exceeded his own full comprehension.
Nouwen wrote about teaching as the service that most fully expresses the teacher’s own faith — because the teacher who stands honestly at the edge of the mystery, teaching what they are still learning, offers a more genuine service than the teacher who performs certainty. John 3:16 is the mystery at the center: God so loved the world. The teaching is never finished.
Application: In your role as teacher — of children, of younger believers, of anyone who learns from you — practice Cyril’s reverence for the mystery today: acknowledge honestly the limit of your own comprehension of what you are teaching, and let that honesty be part of the lesson.
Personal Analysis: What does it mean for your teaching to be a service offered by someone who is still learning what they teach? How does that honesty change the quality of the teaching relationship?
Key Phrase for the Day: “God so loved the world — this is the mystery at the center of every teaching, never fully exhausted.”
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March 19 — Solitude — Joseph: The Interior of Obedience
“Joseph’s interior life is entirely hidden from us — we have no recorded words. What we have is the record of his obedience, which is itself the fullest possible description of his prayer.”
— Henri Nouwen, Here and Now
Matthew 1:19–21 (NKJV) — Then Joseph her husband, being a just man, and not wanting to make her a public example, was minded to put her away secretly. But while he thought about these things, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream, saying, ‘Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take to you Mary your wife, for that which is conceived in her is of the Holy Spirit. And she will bring forth a Son, and you shall call His name Jesus, for He will save His people from their sins.’
The feast of Joseph falls today — and Joseph speaks not a single recorded word in any Gospel. His entire interior life is visible only in his actions: he did as the angel commanded. The solitude of Joseph’s dream is the solitude of a man whose prayer was so deeply formed that its only expression was obedience.
Nouwen wrote about obedience as the ultimate fruit of the interior life — the willingness to do what has been received in the night, without explanation, without negotiation, without the need for others to understand. Joseph did as the angel commanded. This is the prayer that all other prayer is leading toward.
Application: In your solitude today, receive whatever God has been saying to you in this Lenten season — the specific, perhaps inconvenient, instruction that has arrived in the night of your prayer — and practice Joseph’s response: ‘I will do as commanded.’
Personal Analysis: What instruction have you received in the interior life of this season that you have not yet acted on? What makes the Josephs — those whose prayer is expressed entirely in obedience — so rare and so indispensable?
Key Phrase for the Day: “He did as the angel commanded — the whole interior life of Joseph is visible only in his obedience.”
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March 20 — Community — The Community of New Life
“The vernal equinox arrives in Lent — a reminder that the death at the center of Lent is always oriented toward the new life that is already beginning beneath the ground.”
— Henri Nouwen, Our Greatest Gift
John 12:24–25 (NKJV) — Most assuredly, I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the ground and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it produces much grain. He who loves his life will lose it, and he who hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life.
The vernal equinox — when day and night are equal, when the world begins its long tilt toward light — arrives in the heart of Lent. Creation itself is practicing the theology of the grain that falls into the ground and dies. The community that is dying to its false self in Lent is dying toward the community of new life that Easter will announce.
Nouwen wrote about the grain of wheat as the central image of Christian community: each member dying to self-possession, falling into the ground of their common life, producing the abundant grain that is the community’s actual fruit. The death is real; so is the much grain.
Application: In your community, identify one thing that has been held too tightly — a program, a position, a practice, an assumption — that may need to fall into the ground in order to produce the new life that is coming. Discuss it with the honesty Lent makes possible.
Personal Analysis: What in your community’s life is being asked to die this Lenten season in order to produce new life? Can you identify the grain that is falling into the ground, and do you trust the much grain that will come from it?
Key Phrase for the Day: “Unless a grain of wheat falls and dies — the community of new life always passes through this dying.”
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March 21 — Service — The Rule and the Life
“The Rule of Saint Benedict is not primarily a set of regulations but a way of organizing life so that service and prayer are not competitors but companions.”
— Henri Nouwen, The Genesee Diary
Matthew 6:33 (NKJV) — But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Benedict of Nursia, whose feast falls near today, organized the monastic community around the conviction that prayer and work — ora et labora — are not in competition but in rhythmic communion. The Rule creates the conditions in which service is always the overflow of prayer, and prayer is always the interior form of service.
Nouwen spent time at a Benedictine community and found in the Rule what he described as the most practical spirituality he had encountered — not because it was easy but because it was honest about the need for structure in the spiritual life. Seek first the kingdom. All service that flows from this seeking is added.
Application: Review your current daily and weekly structure and ask whether it supports or undermines the ‘seek first’ priority. What one structural change would most honestly put the kingdom first in the ordering of your time and energy?
Personal Analysis: How does the Benedictine insight — that service needs the structure of prayer to be sustainable — apply to your specific service life? What happens to your service when the prayer structure collapses?
Key Phrase for the Day: “Seek first the kingdom — and the Rule is the structure that makes seeking first a daily reality.”
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March 22 — Solitude — The Community’s Struggle
“The most honest prayer is the prayer that does not resolve the struggle — that names the war within and lays it before God without pretending the war is over.”
— Henri Nouwen, A Cry for Mercy
Romans 7:15–19 (NKJV) — For what I am doing, I do not understand. For what I will to do, that I do not practice; but what I hate, that I do. If, then, I do what I will not to do, I agree with the law that it is good. But now, it is no longer I who do it, but sin that dwells in me. For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh) nothing good dwells; for to will is present with me, but how to perform what is good I do not find. For the good that I will to do, I do not do; but the evil I will not to do, that I practice.
Paul’s honest description of the war within — I do what I hate, I do not do what I will — is not the lament of the immature believer but the honest confession of the apostle. The interior struggle does not diminish with spiritual progress; it often intensifies as the stakes become clearer.
Nouwen wrote about this struggle not as a sign of spiritual failure but as the evidence of genuine engagement with the spiritual life. The person who no longer struggles has either won or stopped trying. Lenten solitude is the practice of bringing the struggle honestly before God — not its resolution, but its honest presentation.
Application: In your solitude today, pray Paul’s prayer honestly: name the specific things you will but do not do, the things you do but do not will. Lay the whole struggle before God without the pressure to resolve it today.
Personal Analysis: Has your spiritual life become more or less characterized by the interior struggle Paul describes as you have grown? What does the continuation of the struggle — even for the apostle — suggest about what God is doing in it?
Key Phrase for the Day: “For the good that I will to do, I do not do — the honest prayer names the war without pretending it is over.”
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March 23 — Community — Bearing the Cross Together
“Simon of Cyrene did not volunteer to carry the cross — he was compelled. And yet his compelled service became the most significant moment of his life, and possibly his salvation.”
— Henri Nouwen, Here and Now
Luke 23:26 (NKJV) — Now as they led Him away, they laid hold of a certain man, Simon a Cyrene, who was coming from the country, and on him they laid the cross that he might bear it after Jesus.
Simon was coming from the country when he was compelled into the most significant moment of his life. He did not choose to carry the cross — it was placed on his shoulders by Roman soldiers. The compelled service, the unwanted assignment, the burden laid on you without your consent — this too is the way of the cross.
Nouwen wrote about the community’s cross-bearing as precisely this kind of compelled solidarity: the member who did not choose the suffering of another member but finds themselves carrying it anyway, because that is what the body does. The community that only chooses comfortable service has not yet carried a cross.
Application: Identify one burden in your community’s life that you did not choose but that has been placed on your shoulders — a difficult relationship, an unwanted responsibility, a compelled solidarity. Carry it this week as Simon carried the cross: not willingly, but faithfully.
Personal Analysis: What is the difference between chosen service and compelled service — the burden laid on you without your consent? Has your most formative service been chosen or compelled? What does Simon’s story suggest about how God uses the unwanted assignment?
Key Phrase for the Day: “On him they laid the cross — the compelled service is sometimes the most significant.”
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March 24 — Service — The Servant’s Final Yes
“Oscar Romero’s final homily ended with the words, ‘Let this body immolated and this blood sacrificed nourish us.’ Seconds later he was shot. His service was complete.”
— Henri Nouwen, Here and Now
John 12:24 (NKJV) — Most assuredly, I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the ground and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it produces much grain.
Oscar Romero, martyred on March 24, 1980, was shot at the altar while celebrating Mass. He had been warned repeatedly, had received multiple death threats, and had chosen to remain in El Salvador rather than flee to safety. His service to the poor of his country had made him the target of those who benefited from their poverty.
Nouwen wrote about Romero as the grain of wheat that fell into the Salvadoran ground — and the much grain that has grown from that falling is visible in the communities of faith and justice that his witness inspired globally. The servant who gives everything is the servant whose giving multiplies beyond all calculation.
Application: In whatever form of costly service you are currently engaged — any service that requires genuine risk of comfort, reputation, or security — renew your commitment to it today with Romero’s final yes.
Personal Analysis: What would it mean for your service to reach the level of Romero’s — willing not only to give effort and time but to risk safety itself? What causes in your community are worth that level of commitment?
Key Phrase for the Day: “Unless a grain of wheat falls and dies — Romero fell, and the much grain continues to grow.”
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March 25 — Solitude — Annunciation: The Interior Yes
“The most consequential yes in human history was spoken in an interior moment — a young woman, alone, before an angel, agreeing to carry what no one else could carry for her.”
— Henri Nouwen, Life of the Beloved
Luke 1:28–31 (NKJV) — And having come in, the angel said to her, ‘Rejoice, highly favored one, the Lord is with you; blessed are you among women!’ But when she saw him, she was troubled at his saying, and considered what manner of greeting this was. Then the angel said to her, ‘Do not be afraid, Mary, for you have found favor with God. And behold, you will conceive in your womb and bring forth a Son, and shall call His name Jesus.’
The Annunciation is the feast of the interior yes — spoken in private, received in silence, requiring no audience. The angel departs after the fiat; the community does not yet know what has occurred. Mary carries the reality inwardly before it becomes visible outwardly. This is the order of all genuine interior formation: received in solitude before expressed in community.
Nouwen wrote that Mary’s yes is the model of the soul’s response to the divine initiative — the willingness to receive what God offers before understanding how it will be accomplished. Solitude on the Annunciation is the practice of that same interior availability.
Application: In your solitude today, receive whatever the divine initiative has been announcing to you in this Lenten season — whatever Mary’s angel has been saying. Practice the interior yes: ‘Let it be to me according to Your word.’ Say it before you fully understand what it means.
Personal Analysis: What interior yes is God asking of you in this season — what divine initiative are you being invited to receive and carry before it becomes visible to others? What makes the private, interior yes the hardest kind?
Key Phrase for the Day: “Behold the maidservant of the Lord — let it be to me according to Your word. This is the yes.”
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March 26 — Community — The Community Awaits
“While Mary carries the holy secret in her interior, the community is being formed to receive what is coming — and it does not yet know that it is being formed.”
— Henri Nouwen, Here and Now
Romans 8:19 (NKJV) — For the earnest expectation of the creation eagerly waits for the revealing of the sons of God.
The whole creation, Paul says, is in earnest expectation — it eagerly waits. The community of faith is always in this posture after the Annunciation: something has been received in the interior, is being carried invisibly, and the community is in the process of being prepared to receive what it does not yet know is coming.
Nouwen wrote about the community of expectation as the community most aligned with creation’s own posture — awaiting with all its faculties directed toward the revealing of what God is doing. The Lenten community in late March is exactly this: not yet at Easter, still waiting, but with the Annunciation now in the interior — carrying the yes that will produce the resurrection.
Application: In your community prayer this week, practice the posture of earnest expectation: pray not only about what the community currently faces but about what is coming — what God has received in the interior of this Lenten season and is about to reveal.
Personal Analysis: What is your community currently expecting of God — what interior yes has been spoken that the community is now carrying while waiting for the revealing? How does the posture of earnest expectation reshape what the community does while it waits?
Key Phrase for the Day: “Earnest expectation — the community waits for the revealing of what God has already begun.”
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March 27 — Service — The Service of Return
“Every act of service offered in Lent’s second half is shaped by the approaching destination — the service is moving toward Easter, and it carries the Easter movement in its quality.”
— Henri Nouwen, Walk with Jesus
Hebrews 12:2 (NKJV) — Looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.
Jesus endured the cross for the joy set before Him — He carried the destination inside the suffering. The servant who keeps the joy-set-before-them visible is the servant who can endure the cross’s weight without being crushed by it. The author and finisher of faith is also the One who models the service that looks beyond its present cost to its ultimate purpose.
Nouwen wrote about the servant’s need to carry joy in the midst of suffering — not as denial of the suffering but as the interior orientation that makes the suffering bearable and meaningful. The joy set before Him was the reason He could despise the shame. Look unto Jesus.
Application: In whatever dimension of your service is currently most costly or difficult, practice the ‘joy set before Him’ — name the purpose and the destination your service is moving toward, and let that forward orientation sustain today’s effort.
Personal Analysis: What is the joy set before you in your current service? Is it visible to you, or has the present difficulty obscured it? How does keeping the destination in view change the quality of endurance that the present moment requires?
Key Phrase for the Day: “For the joy set before Him He endured the cross — service looks through the present cost to the coming joy.”
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March 28 — Solitude — The Near Approach of Holy Week
“As Holy Week draws near, the interior life must become very quiet — the noise of ordinary time gives way to the weight of the approaching mystery.”
— Henri Nouwen, Walk with Jesus
Mark 14:32–34 (NKJV) — Then they came to a place which was named Gethsemane; and He said to His disciples, ‘Sit here while I pray.’ And He took Peter, James, and John with Him, and He began to be troubled and deeply distressed. Then He said to them, ‘My soul is exceedingly sorrowful, even to death. Stay here and watch.’
The approach to Gethsemane is the approach to the innermost chamber of the spiritual year. Jesus begins to be troubled and deeply distressed — not performing distress for the disciples but genuinely overwhelmed by what is coming. ‘My soul is exceedingly sorrowful, even to death.’
Nouwen wrote about this moment as the spiritual year’s most demanding invitation: to enter the Gethsemane solitude honestly, to bring what we most dread and most hope for into the presence of the One who sweated drops of blood in the asking. The interior preparation for Holy Week is simply this: Stay here. Watch.
Application: In the days approaching Holy Week, deepen your solitude: extend it, slow it, empty it of agenda. Sit where Jesus sat — at the threshold of what is too heavy to carry alone — and simply watch with Him.
Personal Analysis: What does your soul dread that needs to be brought to Gethsemane? What cup are you asking God to take away? Have you arrived yet at the second part of Jesus’s prayer — ‘not My will, but Yours’?
Key Phrase for the Day: “My soul is exceedingly sorrowful — stay here and watch. This is the invitation of approaching Holy Week.”
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March 29 — Community — Palm Sunday: The Community’s Entrance
“The crowd that cried Hosanna on Palm Sunday is the same crowd that cried Crucify on Friday — which is why genuine community must be built on something more durable than shared enthusiasm.”
— Henri Nouwen, Walk with Jesus
Matthew 21:8–10 (NKJV) — And a very great multitude spread their clothes on the road; others cut down branches from the trees and spread them on the road. Then the multitudes who went before and those who followed cried out, saying: ‘Hosanna to the Son of David! Blessed is He who comes in the name of the Lord! Hosanna in the highest!’ And when He had come into Jerusalem, all the city was moved, saying, ‘Who is this?’
The Palm Sunday community is the community of enthusiasm — crowds spreading cloaks and cutting branches, the whole city moved by the energy of the moment. And Jesus enters on a donkey, the sign of the peaceful king, not the warhorse of the conquering general. He does not become the king the crowd is hoping for.
Nouwen wrote about Palm Sunday as the feast of misplaced community expectations — the gathering that expects something other than what God is actually providing. The community formed around shared enthusiasm is the most fragile kind; the community formed around the cross is the most durable.
Application: In your community gathering this Palm Sunday season, reflect honestly on the expectations you have brought to the community — the specific things you hoped the community would provide — and ask whether they are consistent with the donkey-riding king who comes in the name of the Lord.
Personal Analysis: What happens to your community’s faith when God fails to be what the crowd was expecting? How does your community move from Palm Sunday enthusiasm to Good Friday faithfulness without losing what is genuine in both?
Key Phrase for the Day: “Blessed is He who comes in the name of the Lord — but not as the crowd expected. This is always the challenge.”
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March 30 — Service — Serving in Holy Week
“The service of Holy Week is the service of accompaniment — the willingness to stay near the cross when everything in us wants to be somewhere else.”
— Henri Nouwen, Walk with Jesus
John 19:25–27 (NKJV) — Now there stood by the cross of Jesus His mother, and His mother’s sister, Mary the wife of Clopas, and Mary Magdalene. When Jesus therefore saw His mother, and the disciple whom He loved standing by, he said to His mother, ‘Woman, behold your son!’ Then He said to the disciple, ‘Behold your mother!’ And from that hour that disciple took her into his own home.
The service of standing at the cross — when the disciples had fled, when the cause seemed finished, when hope had nowhere to live — is the service of the women and of the Beloved Disciple. They stood there. This is the most honest description of what service looks like when there is nothing impressive left to offer.
Nouwen wrote about the ministry of standing near — the willingness to be present to suffering without being able to alleviate it. The Beloved Disciple takes Mary into his own home: this is what standing near produces. The cross creates new family.
Application: Identify one place this week where you are called to simply stand near — near the suffering, near the cross, near the person from whom nothing impressive is available. Offer the service of your presence without any other agenda.
Personal Analysis: What is it in you that wants to flee when there is nothing impressive to offer, when the cause seems lost, when the cross is the only remaining reality? What kept the women and the Beloved Disciple standing? What keeps you?
Key Phrase for the Day: “There stood by the cross His mother, and the disciple whom He loved — the service of standing near.”
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March 31 — Solitude — Holy Saturday: The In-Between
“Holy Saturday is the day of the closed tomb — the day when the resurrection has not yet happened and the crucifixion is complete, and the disciples do not yet know which story they are in.”
— Henri Nouwen, Our Greatest Gift
Mark 15:46–47 (NKJV) — Then he bought fine linen, took Him down, and wrapped Him in the linen. And he laid Him in a tomb which had been hewn out of the rock, and rolled a stone against the door of the tomb. And Mary Magdalene and Mary the mother of Joses observed where He was laid.
Holy Saturday is the most interior day of the liturgical year — the day of the sealed tomb, of apparent defeat, of waiting without knowing what the waiting is moving toward. The women observe where He is laid. The disciples are scattered. Nothing is moving. The stone is in place.
Nouwen wrote about Holy Saturday as the feast of the in-between — the space between the end of one story and the beginning of another in which the soul must wait without the reassurance of the conclusion. Many lives are spent largely in Holy Saturday: between the cross and the resurrection, in the day that does not yet know what is coming. This too is sacred ground.
Application: Enter today’s solitude as Holy Saturday: bring no agenda, expect no resolution, manufacture no reassurance. Simply sit in the in-between — the honest day of the sealed tomb — and wait. The resurrection has not yet been announced here.
Personal Analysis: Where in your life are you currently in a Holy Saturday — the in-between that follows a significant ending but has not yet arrived at a new beginning? What does it mean to inhabit that space faithfully, without forcing the conclusion?
Key Phrase for the Day: “He was laid in a tomb, and a stone was rolled against the door — Holy Saturday is the sacred in-between.”
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The circle continues in April.